Then it wouldn’t be fair.
When you love someone, you have to love them as a whole. You can’t just like a certain part of them. You have to accept everything that comes with them too. Cause when someone enters your life, they not only comes with their present self, they also comes with their whole life. The past, the scars, things that keeps them up at night, their beliefs, their flaws & their insecurities. Things that break and made them as the way they are.
You can’t just close one eye to the parts that you don’t want to see. It wouldn’t be fair. Accept them as the way they are.
If you love them when they are at their best then you have to also love them at their worst. Don’t try to change them.
There’s no such thing as perfect man or perfect woman. Be more realistic pls. You can’t have it all.